The antiderivative of ln x is x*(ln x - 1), which you derive by plain integration by parts. (u = ln x, dv = dx).
x ... ln x
1 ... x(ln x - 1)
0 ... [∫ x Inx dx] - x^2/2
So ∫ x Inx dx = x^2 (ln x - 1) + [∫ x Inx dx] - x^2/2
Sometimes when you loop back to the original, you get a different sign or leading coefficient, leaving a final equation that you can "solve" for the integral. Not so here. The tabular method doesn't work for this integral.
In finding out what the tabular method was (I don't recall seeing in when I took Calculus), I found this web page.
http://math.ucsd.edu/~wgarner/math20b/int_by_parts.htm
It does a pretty good job of explaining the method, and introduces an acronym LIPET for choosing the u in u dv. Tend to prefer (L)ogarithms, (I)nverse functions, (P)olynomials, (E)xponential functions, or (T)rigonometric functions,...in that order. The tabular method only works when u is the polynomial, so that would tend to steer you away from that method when logs or inverse functions (like arctan x, arcsinh x, etc) are involved.