If you are told for sure that a sequence is quadratic, just use the general formula
y = ax^2 + bx + c
Also, look at each term in the sequence as the first, second, third, fourth, etc... the place in the sequence represents the x value, while the actual value is y. So for the sequence
2, 5, 9, 14
It would be like
(1, 2) (2, 5) (3, 9) (4, 14)
So for the equation y = ax^2 + bx + c,
Just make x and y equal the values above.
You only require three points to solve the quadratic, so all you have to do is form three equations and three unknowns.
y = ax^2 + bx + c, so for (1, 2), let x = 1 and y = 2 to get
2 = a(1)^2 + b(1) + c
2 = a + b + c
For x = 2, y = 5:
5 = a(2)^2 + b(2) + c
5 = 4a + 2b + c
For x = 3, y = 9:
9 = a(3)^2 + b(3) + c
9 = 9a + 3b + c
So your three equations three unknowns equations are:
2 = a + b + c
5 = 4a + 2b + c
9 = 9a + 3b + c
Solve this as normal.
Subtracting equation 1 by equation 2 gives us
-3 = -3a - b
Subtracting equation 2 by equation 3 gives us
-4 = -5a - b
So this is now a two equations two unknowns problem.
-3 = -3a - b
-4 = -5a - b
Subtract these two, to get a.
-3 - (-4) = (-3a) - (-5a)
1 = -3a + 5a
1 = 2a
a = 1/2
And we can get b easily, by plugging in a = 1/2 into any one of the two equations.
-4 = -5a - b, so at a = 1/2,
-4 = -5(1/2) - b
-4 = -5/2 - b
-8 = -5 - 2b
-3 = -2b
b = 3/2
Now that we have a and b, we can easily get c from the original three equations.
2 = a + b + c, a = 1/2, b = 3/2,
2 = (1/2) + (3/2) + c
2 = (4/2) + c
2 = 2 + c
0 = c
So a = 1/2, b = 3/2, c = 0, and our general equation,
y = ax^2 + bx + c
becomes
y = (1/2)x^2 + (3/2)x
So the corresponding sequence is
a(n) = (1/2)n^2 + (3/2)n