what is a group
http://members.tripod.com/~dogschool/
Now for each law you associate two individual belong to human lets say.
Human is the big set we consider.
for law either closure, associative is a semi group proved
Now The Identity -- is the Vacuum itself
Now Inverse Human is no human then it is all the vacuum
Now coming to your concept of abelian group
if any group that satisfies the commutative with the above four then it is an abelian
If not abelian we have the solution above
if abelian you have the meaning associated to what you want and you have achieved fulfillment.
just the understanding, the sharing , the caring , the love and all the glorious period you walk through for enlightenment
In my view I cite this example for nothing is beyond humanity and its very true existence.
Every law of maths is true life
its only that we see it in the form equations and abstractions, but it is more than science
If it is still unclear please let me know
http://www-groups.dcs.st-and.ac.uk/~history/HistTopics/Development_group_theory.html
http://www.amazon.com/Group-Theory-W-R-Scott/dp/0486653773 is truly a very good book
If u read modern algebra by Seth and Sharma and any Indian author you yourself will be able to correlate to real life situations too