It motivates all encompassing notation, rather than having to define things piece-wise. It shows up everywhere and is a compact, convenient way of consolidating all results into one equation. Whether you are writing out the results of an inner product of orthogonality, defining a matrix/tensor as a sum of elements presented in indicial notation, in quantum mechanics, and so forth.
I do not know what an equality test is, but you will see many uses of it in your later education. It is essentially the discrete version of the Dirac delta function. The Dirac delta function furnishes modeling and calculations in many arenas, and I am not sure what we would do without it. In quantum mechanics, I am not sure what we would do without the Kronecker delta function. It is a simple advent, but facilitates so much from a grass roots level.
What you will find if you pursue further education is that while results are results, some forms are more transparent than others. Different qualities of an expression or result may be more readily seen in one notation but not apparent in another (equivalent) one (e.g. sin(x)/x at x = 0 is 1, this is very obvious when looking at the taylor series representation, but impossible to see when looking at it in terms of elementary functions). While it may seem like just bookkeeping, the ability to recast something in a different form is a very powerful tool in solving problems. The Kronecker delta function is one such function that enables this flexibility in representation. It is important to have all the tricks we can. It may seem difficult to gauge its usefulness just from me speaking obliquely about it. But, you will see in time though I am sure.
Edit: Jennifer, what is so complicated about putting a delta symbol with appropriate subscripts? That is compact, and makes things look simpler than they are. The notation and techniques developed in previous centuries are as good as ever. Math does not usually become "outdated." I now wonder of your particular level with math-oriented education. Because, people do not typically find these things complicated.