I missed 2 opportunities for Erdos numbers. Actually, i
really don't regret them as much as others might. The first
chance came when my professor and friend said to me
one day, " I'm picking up Erdos at the airport today so
why don't you come along?" I said, "Oh , i think i'll pass but
thanks ." Well, if you meet him he may want to write a paper with you". I really didn't feel up to that so i said, " No, i
guess i''ll stay here, i have some personal things to take care of anyway." I didn't feel ready to write with Paul Erdos if
you know what i mean. So there went Erdos number one.
Erdos two went out the window in the following manner:
My professor and still friend had met Erdos at the airport
and they had written three papers together after a period
of several years and he had acquired his Erdos 1/3. He said to
me one day at a cafe, "I would like you to work on this
project and we'll publish it, otherwise i'll give it to one of my
graduate students to help me with it." I hadn't the heart to
say that it wasn't motivating enough and somehow wriggled
out of it . Yet, truly i wasn't fond of the idea put forth to
use a certain technique for this investigation and i stuck to
that and passed by another Erdos # but still with no regrets.