Consider that the 4 and 8 are opposite sides of the same coin: any time you pick 8 from the 12; you don't pick 4.
For every one of those ways of choosing 8, there is an exactly corresponding way of picking 4.
Also, look at the formula; in the denominator there is an (a-b)! (b!) term [I am probably butchering the nomenclature] so you can see that where you have 12nCr4 and 12nCr8 you have 12!/4!8! and 12!/8!4!, which are equal.
Note that this will not be true for permutations; there are more ways to arrange a larger set than ways to arrange a smaller set. The permutations would be 12!/8! or 12!/4!, which are =/=.
Handy way to remember combinations vs permutations:
Draw a picture of your generic "combination" lock. Write "Combination Lock" underneath it.
Cross out "Combination" and write "Permutation".
In a permutation, order is important: ABC =/= CAB =/=CBA, whereas in a combination order is not important, and ABC = ACB = CAB = etc.
If you scramble the numbers' order, the lock will not open; therefore it is a Permutation lock.